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Become Your Own Badass CEO!

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Same old day. Same old BS.

Are your days becoming monotonous? Like nothing about your work energizes you anymore, in fact, it depleted you dry by the end of the week.

Are you ready for a change? Not just any change, but taking control of your future, taking over how your days look like, and working on your passion.

Well, maybe it’s time for you to be your own boss? While it may sound a little intimidating, becoming your own badass CEO is one of the best things you can give to yourself. And we have tips before you make the huge leap to the business world.

Visualization and Setting Up A Plan

Think about your money and your money story goal, how it will look like by the end of the year. And make a financial plan and decisions based on them. Mapped out the steps you’ll be taking. The way we think, and feel will lead to different behaviors, sometimes, even impulses so it’s essential that we influenced every reasoning and action with well-grounded intentions.

Get Financial Help

There’s nothing wrong with getting help from a professional such as an accountant or financial adviser especially if you are not that confident in handling all the ledgers and taxes. You can hire a professional and still call yourself an entrepreneur. Being your own boss doesn’t equate to single-handedly doing everything. Let the experts support you on something that is not your strength. Of course, it’s important to keep track of your money, where it’s coming from and going to, but you can still start being a boss even with just the most basic financial knowledge.

Diversify Yourself and Your Income Stream

It’s important that you continue to learn new things and skills to give you multiple streams of income. A side hustle is a perfect example, and this could be anything from your hobbies, passion, talents, and even your current profession or expertise. Devote and manage your time for each project.

Now that you have money flowing in from different directions, it’s time to put your money in various buckets and let them work for you. It could be a high-yield savings account, various investments, or a new business. There are so many opportunities just make sure to be mindful and be smart with you’re putting the money.

Begin Your Tax Planning

Save yourself from stress by making it simple and organized. And start immediately. You could do as simple as filing all your receipts every month so, at the end of the year, it will not be so hard recalling the expenses. It will also give you more time to thoroughly check your documents and see if you’re entitled to some deductions.

Build Up Yourself an Emergency Fund

You can never tell when an unanticipated event will come plunging into your life, and they can be stressful and quite costly. Take the covid-19 pandemic as an example, it came so suddenly that a lot of people and businesses are affected by it. Building a contingency fund will cover the financial surprises life throws at you.

Automate Your Finances

It saves you time and simplifies your life. There are a lot of financial transactions that you can automate to make matters easier, from paying bills to depositing and transferring funds. Make use of technology and online banking – no need to worry anymore about remembering the dues every month as it happens on schedule. You can also conveniently track your money and every transaction in just one press.

There are obvious benefits of becoming your own boss, but it also comes in challenges and can be exceptionally hard, that’s why it’s good to know a thing, or two, before shifting to entrepreneurship. And once you get the hang of it, it is the best!


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